By Ronda Kaysen
Much thought isnt usually given to moderators. By definition, they are thought to be moderate, but Yori Yanover, who was tapped to facilitate Tuesday nights City Council District 2 debate, has some strong opinions about the feminist, gay rights and psychoanalytic movements and isnt afraid to blog them.
On Tuesday morning, hours before 12 of the candidates vying to fill Margarita Lopezs City Council seat gathered at the Henry Street Settlement for their first public debate, an anonymous e-mail circulated among the candidates, urging them to boycott the event, which will include three panelists asking questions in addition to Yanover, who will moderate. The writer, identifying himself only as Constitution Man of the Committee to Boycott LoHo Realty and their Grand Street News, pointed to a private Web log penned by the debates moderator as cause for a candidate-wide boycott.
The blog, www.usajewish.com, was written by Yanover, the publisher of Grand Street News, a booklet-size community newspaper sponsored by LoHo Realty. The entries in question address an ongoing dispute within the Jewish community about a handful or rabbis accused of sexual impropriety.
In one entry, Yanover responds to sexual allegations against the late Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach, lodged by several women after Carlebachs death. The allegations were never brought to court. In response to the unsubstantiated allegations, Yanover, in his blog, blamed the homosexual movement, the feminist movement and the psychoanalytical movement. All three movements have politicized the sexual, and with that, robbed us of the carefree availability of our sexual expression, he wrote.
The gay rights, feminist and psychological movements have changed how society approached sex in worrisome ways, Yanover said in a telephone interview. Making a sexual mistake in this society is the most dangerous thing that can happen to you. The boss who 10 years ago may have said something cheeky to a secretary or a female underling, now hes going in the other direction. This is part of the anxiety of our culture.
One candidate, Brian Kavanagh, withdrew his name from the debate after learning about Yanovers statements. The moderator of a debate is not merely a bystander, but controls the forum and has a public presence and I think that choosing this particular person under the present circumstances shows some insensitivity both to the gay and lesbian community and also to victims of rape, said Kavanagh, describing the entries as reprehensible.
Is she concerned? Im sure she would be concerned with anything thats homophobic or anti-women, said Roberto Caballero, who is gay and is the campaign manager for Reverend Joan Brightharp, the only member of the clergy in the race.
Yanover is a strong presence in the Lower East Side community. In fact, Grand Street News approached Henry Street Settlement several months ago to co-sponsor the debate, along with LoHo Realty. Some local figures have jumped to his defense in the wake of the Tuesday morning e-mail. I believe in supporting good people, said Susan Stetzer, district manager of Community Board 3. He is not homophobic, he is not anti-feminist. He and his wife are feminists and theyre raising their daughter to be a feminist. Stetzer and David McWater, C.B. 3 chairperson, were profiled by Grand Street News a few months ago and their photo appeared on its cover.
Henry Street Settlement, which hosted the event, had no intentions of canceling or changing moderators on Tuesday afternoon. At this point, were not making any changes, said Kathleen Gupta, a chief administrator for the Henry Street Settlement, two hours before the event. Were just moving forward and hoping itll be a productive evening.
Rosie Mendez, the only openly gay candidate in the race, had not read the e-mail when she spoke to Downtown Express on Tuesday afternoon and was reluctant to take a position. I have to ask myself, Why today, a couple of hours before the debate, is this coming to light? she said. This has been planned a long time ago. Its interesting that this has come out now.
The author of the e-mail that pointed candidates to the blog did not return requests for comment, nor did he respond to requests to identify himself.
Bias is often subjective and, according to Yanover, the comments on his blog all of which were removed on Tuesday afternoon were part of a larger dialogue within the Jewish community. The blog entries in question were written last winter, he said, in response to comments made last October by an organization, the Awareness Center, about his close friend Rabbi Jeremy Hershy Worch.
The Awareness Center, a Maryland-based organization, is dedicated to addressing sexual violence in Jewish communities around the world, according to its Web site. Among the alleged perpetrators of sexual violence accused on the Web site is Yanovers friend Worch.
Every time you Google the guys name, every time he applies for a job, the link to the Awareness Center Web site appears at the top of the search engine, said Yanover. His name is destroyed. What can you do about this? All you can do is cower away or you can fight this.
And so Yanover printed the full name, address and telephone number of the woman who made the accusations against Worch, removing the the shelter of anonymity that protected her.
This woman destroyed the life of a man, she accused him of despicable things and hid behind a veil of anonymity and she did not deserve it [anonymity], said Yanover in a telephone interview, pointing out that no charges were ever brought against Worch.
Ironically, the Internet and the infinite memory of Google may now have turned on Yanover, thrusting his online ramblings into the political arena. A friend of mine last October was destroyed by sinister people and its been my business to defend his good name, he said. And if I get skewered by that then thats the way it has to be.